“I love having to be discreet or quiet to maintain normalcy – like going down on each other as one of us is on the phone having an actual conversation. I like the coy nature of it and it’s got its own little thrill with only minor impact to whomever we’re on the phone with.”

“I love grunting. Something kind of primal about it. If I’m going to sit here and blow you for 15 minutes, make some noises goddammit. You’re wondering why I don’t seem into it? Because you don’t seem into it! So frustrating. We’re mashing uglies, not attending a funeral service.”

“If I’m leaning on a wall and a guy puts both hands on either side of me on the wall. I kinda feel trapped and super turned on”

“A co worker walked by my chair once and very lightly touched the back of my neck. OH. MY. GOD. My mind literally went blank for a second.”

“A co-worker was talking me through something techy, he’d pulled up a stool and was sat right next to me at my desk and as I turned to look at him I just saw his Adam’s apple moving up and down and the only thing I could think was “lick it. Liiiiick iiiiiit.” I spent the entire explanation just trying to ignore the voice in my head and not be too obvious in staring at his neck. My brain sucks and when the issue came up again I had to go and find someone else to teach me.”

“heavy breathing. especially trying to cover it up and pretend it’s not happening”

“When a guy drives a stick shift car. I have no idea how to drive one but whenever he shifts into a new gear, there’s something oddly arousing about it.”

“Watching a guy do outdoorsy things. I guess its not that weird, but watching a guy rock climb, pitch a tent (pun intended), start a fire, etc. Anything that shows he is self sufficient in nature. Huge turn on.”

“Dirty, rough, and calloused hands. Not filthy, just where he looks like he works with his hands for a living. Feeling calloused hands on my skin is enough to put me in a tizzy.”

“I’ve posted this before, but thunderstorms. Something about that heavy electric feeling in the air, the tension before the storm, the actual power of the thunderstorm is a huge turn on. I have no idea how sex and thunderstorms got linked together in my mind, but it happened sometime during college.”

“Being in water with my husband. Like pools, lakes, the ocean. Idk why, I just get horny af when we are in water together, even if he’s not nearby or paying attention to me! We joke about it a lot.”

“Being nervous, I’m not entirely sure how but a wire got crossed somewhere along my sexual journey and now when I get nervous I get sexually excited even though it’s usually really inappropriate timing.”

“When my boyfriend changed my tire. He did it like it was nothing, it was so damn sexy.”

“When a man cooks for me i always want to jump him, it’s so sexy to me..”

“Tickling if it goes on for a period of time along with closeness. Usually my boyfriend does it to be silly but it either makes me want to stop because I don’t like tickling that much anyway, or to fuck.”

“Heat. Warm rooms… its difficult… And yes, Saunas ARE a problem for me.”